I got my favorite backhanded slap in the face compliment, and it just made me think of all the awkward, perverse, inappropriate compliments I have come across in my few years of being “of age”. I know these types of compliments aren’t limited to big girls, but I’m no skinny bitch, so I won’t speak […]

Let’s explore this concept, shall we. To start with a little basic background, from the time you are old enough to explore sexual desire you are told one of two things. If you’re a boy you are told sex is good and that it is your nature to explore your sexual desires. If you’re a […]

For many big girls, clarity and self love doesn’t come until they understand the difference between sex and love. While it has never been a question of finding a man that wants to sleep with me, it is more of a question of them wanting to hold my hand in public afterwards. I confused men […]

My insecurities have a long-standing relationship with my personality. They navigate me better than I ever could. So understand that I have been trying to break them up for a long time, and they occasionally pull me back in like a lover that won’t stay away. Don’t add qualifiers to compliments. If you think I’m […]

Thank you for visiting my website and taking the time to get to know the diva behind the magic. Please know that I will not tolerate bitterness, hate speech, racism, fat shaming, slut shaming, or any negativity in general. I am no stranger to online blogs, and I am no stranger to writing about my […]